tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1646064586005100695.post8851767727392988652..comments2023-03-24T17:57:03.886+05:30Comments on A Woman of Process: Letting goPrima from A Woman of Processhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04196298403868073007noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1646064586005100695.post-6675753047931099662012-01-16T18:32:28.473+05:302012-01-16T18:32:28.473+05:30This is so beautiful. Do you remember carrying Zac...This is so beautiful. Do you remember carrying Zach to the creche, reading Hippy the happy hippo?:)Twas great fun. I wouldnt trade it for anything in the world. If i've not said it before....here goes. Kevin and you've done succcccchhhhhh a great thing in the way you've brought up Zach. I have constantly shared with whomever I've known.....incidents of Zach growing up. You guys are the best.....congratulations.<br /><br />Love to Zach always:)Astridhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12101849562341269251noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1646064586005100695.post-85031685559373366412012-01-16T16:41:11.187+05:302012-01-16T16:41:11.187+05:30I think three of you are doing well in coping with...I think three of you are doing well in coping with pangs of growing and you will end up trumps. Very special congratulations to Zach.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1646064586005100695.post-34708444875848314402012-01-16T11:02:53.526+05:302012-01-16T11:02:53.526+05:30Thank you, Maggie! Visitation rights are possible....Thank you, Maggie! Visitation rights are possible... not adoption!Prima from A Woman of Processhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04196298403868073007noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1646064586005100695.post-11229268849000240242012-01-16T11:01:09.950+05:302012-01-16T11:01:09.950+05:30Thank you, Seju Moju, I love hugs and hearts - for...Thank you, Seju Moju, I love hugs and hearts - for any reason!Prima from A Woman of Processhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04196298403868073007noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1646064586005100695.post-77802848514335621562012-01-16T10:59:20.784+05:302012-01-16T10:59:20.784+05:30Prima... Zacku baby is growing up... I have always...Prima... Zacku baby is growing up... I have always told you that he will succeed... give him the space and the support (that you and Kevin has always been giving him).<br /><br />Losing books that is not a big issue... i know grown ups who keep forgetting their tiffin boxes, umbrellas etc...Lalithahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18270852505201111911noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1646064586005100695.post-1725204738091713192012-01-16T03:31:48.851+05:302012-01-16T03:31:48.851+05:30Hey Prima,
I hope the dyspraxia is not too bad. H...Hey Prima, <br />I hope the dyspraxia is not too bad. Has he had a brain scan and what is the diagnosis and prognosis? Since when has he has this affliction? I know you had a difficult time at birth and also his condition for the first year. Merrill, my younger son is a normal child except that he has flat feet (no arch). So that is a limitation which I have recently allowed him to understand though he objects to the word disability because he can do anything a normal child does except be a sportsman or a police officer (both need excellent physical attributes). He also has started studying independently at the age of 13. Do not worry about traveling alone by bus in Colaba - Bombay is a big city and children have to be careful at all times. Mangalore is different and school children travel by bus or auto-rickshaw to school everyday.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1646064586005100695.post-36416725932934843092012-01-15T19:41:22.850+05:302012-01-15T19:41:22.850+05:30Hey Prima,
Like you say "letting go" BIG...Hey Prima,<br />Like you say "letting go" BIG thing for us mums! I have been there tears,hugs and all the drama that goes with it, and it amazes me how till date with grown up hulks that I have they still need their 'Ma' when things take a wrong turn.<br />So dont you worry girl, tis all good!Aletanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1646064586005100695.post-46334369645519960382012-01-15T15:36:10.925+05:302012-01-15T15:36:10.925+05:30David is starting school this year and so I too am...David is starting school this year and so I too am exploring letting go. I am sure Zac will do well in his exams and life. We mums on the other hand, will probably be a blithering mess. Love vaneetaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1646064586005100695.post-22671721322467733252012-01-15T15:21:03.682+05:302012-01-15T15:21:03.682+05:30Hi prima, that was so heartwarming. Letting go is ...Hi prima, that was so heartwarming. Letting go is all part of being parents. Me and my wife often discuss such things. She was more independantly brought up than me. Being a single child i was more protected. <br />Paradoxically i push for more independance while she is more protective towards their needs. Parents never really grow up. My mother is still treats me as a child and a part of me doesnt want her to stop. So dont worry about letting go because you wont. And zack wont let you. Thanks for sharing this. Deveshdeveshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18102543539203591432noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1646064586005100695.post-26198729321757343222012-01-15T13:39:27.837+05:302012-01-15T13:39:27.837+05:30Zach is the loveliest baby now almost grown I know...Zach is the loveliest baby now almost grown I know. My son Stuart, with my encouragement, decided at the age of 15 to adopt him at the age of two and we haven't changed our minds. He still hugs me when he meets me and tugs at my kurta / saree palav if I have not noticed. You guys have done and are continuing to do a great job Prima. Much love.margiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11600625526821294110noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1646064586005100695.post-79207282205649107602012-01-15T12:35:45.524+05:302012-01-15T12:35:45.524+05:30Tried. God knows why it isn't showing. Just re...Tried. God knows why it isn't showing. Just replying here. <br /> Zach usually gets loads of love from everyone, esp from the office. For once, after reading this lovely post,Hand heart for you. <3.<br /><br />SejuAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1646064586005100695.post-14775085549608509482012-01-15T10:19:04.257+05:302012-01-15T10:19:04.257+05:30Cheryl-Ann,
Thank you so much for that comment and...Cheryl-Ann,<br />Thank you so much for that comment and the reassurance. It will help in the days to come...Prima from A Woman of Processhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04196298403868073007noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1646064586005100695.post-70278559404173659072012-01-15T10:13:50.479+05:302012-01-15T10:13:50.479+05:30That was beautiful Prima. I had a similar conversa...That was beautiful Prima. I had a similar conversation with my mum just the other day, in terms of letting go.<br /><br />Possibly the greatest gift she gave me and the brother quite early on was letting us go while standing firmly by. In retrospect, it took great resolve and love for her not to just swoop in a lot of times and hand-hold, and each time she didn't, we were the better for it.<br /><br />Zach's proud of you too, even if he doesn't know it yet. I've met him a time or two, he's a special little man. :)Cheryl-Annhttp://gyurkovics.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.com